
The ushers are
chosen by the groom and his best man and are usually brothers, close
relatives or
friends (which covers just about anyone!) of the bride and groom.
As a general guide you will need an usher for each 50 guests.
Traditionally the ushers are the responsibility of the best man, who ensures they know their duties.
4 months
Arrange to purchase or hire clothes and agree who will pay for them.
1 week before
Confirm final
travel arrangements with the best man and any other ushers, including
the time of
arrival at the church or register office.
Obtain for the
best man a list of family and guests who should be personally escorted
to their seats.
Attend the wedding rehearsal if required.
Have your hair cut.
Obtain large umbrellas.
The day before
Collect any hired clothing and accessories.
On the day
Collect buttonholes and order of service sheets from the brides home.
Arrive at the
church at least half an hour before the ceremony is due to start.
At the church
Help with car parking facilities.
Greet the guests
and hand out the buttonholes, order of service sheets and maps
showing the
route to the reception.
Ensure the
officiant has order of service sheets for the bride and groom.
Seat couples with young babies and children near the exit.
Escort the brides mother and appropriate guests to their seats.
Assist the photographer.
Ensure the
church is left tidy and check for any left property and unused order
of service
sheets.
Ensure all guests have transport to the reception.
At the reception
Assist with car parking facilities.
Offer drinks to the guests as they arrive if appropriate.
Assist any elderly or infirm guests.
After the wedding
Return any hired clothing and accessories.